| Case Study: Mending a Broken Heart By Sonia Schwartz From previous sessions I knew that my client was concerned with her relationship with her former boyfriend. In the previous 5 months they had severed all social and communal bonds, with the exception of their physical relationship. She now felt that she needed to be free of this attachment so that she could be open to meeting someone new. I asked her if she wanted to and was prepared to be over this relationship now. After continued discussion, I explained the process and used the technique: ‘How to mend a broken heart’. First together we acknowledged the part of her that that has been protecting her, as a valuable part, wanting to preserve and maintain its ability in future situations – but now we needed to refine and improve her brains ability to protect by updating its information –understanding that the memories will not be removed just the strong emotional response. Then with her eyes closed I put her in a light trance and asked her to imagine herself in the middle of a movie theater in a comfortable chair, and she sees a black and white image of herself on the screen Client also agreed to contact the voice coach from his past and look into lessons for projecting his voice. I also told him that he could look at contacting a singing coach who may be able to give him lessons. Client also stated that his father was trained as a professional singer and may be able to give him some pointers. Then I asked her to imagine herself floating out of her body and up into the projection booth. To see her sitting in a movie theater seat – and noticing the B/W picture on the screen and as she does this- also to imagine there is light all around the booths opening protecting her. I then instructed her to watch, protected in the projection booth, as the other you in the movie theatre watch a B/W movie of the younger you going through the entire relationship- the good, bad the entire relationship- from beginning when you met to the breakup. Watch the entire event from before the beginning to the end. And to observe until you are beyond the end of it, when everything is OK again. I had her then leave the projection booth and sit back in her theater seat and then step into the freeze photo of a younger her who is feeling fine again at the end of the movie, Then I asked her to run the entire movie of their relationship backward in color – seeing, feeling, hearing everything that occurred – seeing this in just a few seconds. She repeated the process 3 times. Then I asked her to bring up the negative times she had with him – all the hurts and slights – everything. Then I asked her to let it fade into her past. Then I asked her to bring up a picture of him, and notice all the connections you have with him. Head to head - heart to heart – sex to sex – spirit to spirit. To notice the connections –cords of light, energy strings - And I asked her if the time was right – and in whatever way was right for her, to cut the cords. – And once they are cut you can reattach them to yourself -- and let him reattach his to himself. Release them to find their highest good, as you release your self. I went though the 8 steps with her, she had no difficulty with disassociation throughout the session then as she began to cut the cords I noticed her facial expressions, grimacing, so I asked her to infuse the area with clear pure white light for her highest good, and her highest purpose – and when she was ready, and if the time is right, to cut the cords – and reconnect hers back to herself, and then allowing him to reconnect his back to himself. I asked her to do this so that both of you can realign and find your highest good- and my client had a major release. After I brought her back to the present, we discussed how she felt and her release. She said even though she had been connected to him in the basest of ways - she needed to know and disconnect from him in a spiritually and now she feels she has been able to that. I met with my client this week, they have not been together since and she feels that she has released her feelings anger and hurt, and that she feels free. That she can go on with her life now, beginning open to new possibilities. |